People with ALS pass through a doorway into a different world. It's a one-way trip: you may survive, but you can never come home to the same old life. And however much they want to be with you, Moms, Dads, Sisters, Brothers, Spouses, Friends & Lovers can't come into your world on an equal footing. But when people with ALS meet, it's different. They don't have to explain how it feels… They don't have to explain anything.
"Some girls aren't as lucky
as we were to have
such a perfect Daddy
You are our Hero"
Thank you Joan for this lovely Christmas gift to Wayne
Back when my loving father and mother Made their cozy little home, I came along pretty soon To end the peaceful days they owned.
I guess they didn't have to choose For me to fill their empty hearts, But, I am sure so thankful Their lives were sabotaged.
By night my Dad would walk the floor Then still work hard by day, And when he came back home again I'd entice him out to play.
I didn't hear him grumble very much He'd merely grin at me and say, Ah, you make putty of a man But that's just a womans way.
I never then did figure out Why he thought little me so grown up, How could I know I was a mini version Of my sweet mothers heart.
As with a twinkle in his merry eye At anything I asked, Whatever problem I might bring He'd always fix on my behalf.
Ah, my Father has been good to me All the years we've been together, But, you know what is the best.. He'll be my Dad No#1 forever.
1 of Wayne's final resting places way up high atop in a glass case on a marbled shelf where his loved ones are not able to leave private momentos or their personal messages. "What we cannot leave with you there, we will always have within our hearts". I still visit you buddy even though your not there <3 Best friends,together,4ever!!
With your hand in mine; together we can walk through this
In Our Hearts
We miss you so much Daddy. The faith that you instilled in us is where our faith helps to keep us going. You will never be forgotten. We love you!
This sweet angel hug is for you, Laura-Lynn & Julie-Ann from your Mumma XoXoXoXoXo
And God Said
I said, "God, I hurt," And God said, " I know,"
I said, God, I cry alot," And God Said, "That is why I gave you tears,"
I said, "God, I am so depressed," And God said, "That is why I gave you sunshine,"
I said, "God, life is so hard," And God said, "That is why I gave you loved ones,"
I said, "God, my loved one died," And God said, "so did mine,"
I said, "God it is such a big loss," And God Said, "I saw mine nailed to the cross,"
I said, "God, but your loved one lives on," And God said, "So does yours,"
I said, "God, where are they now?" And God said, "mine is on my right and Yours is in the light,"
I said, "God, it hurts," And God said, "I know,"
My dearest Laura and Julie
Some thing I'd like to say but first of all to let you both know, I arrived ok.
I'm writing this from heaven, Here I dwell with God above.
Here there's no more tears of saddness; Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I am out of sight, Remember I am with you both Every morning, noon and night.
The day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and he said, "I welcome you".
It's good to have you back again Wayne, You were missed while you were gone. As for your 2 sweet daughters, They'll be here later on.
I needed you here badly, You're part of my plan, There's so much we have to do, To help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, That he wished for me to do, and foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
I will be beside you everyday, and week and year. And when you're sad I'm there To wipe away your tears.
When you lie awake in bed at night, the days chores put to flight God and I are closest to you... in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years, because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain, Remember there would be no flowers, without the down pouring rain.
I wish I could tell you All that God has planned If I were to tell you, You wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain though my life on earth is over, I'm closest to you now then I ever was before.
And to my many friends, trust God knows what is best. I'm still not far from you, I'm just beyond the crest.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; but together we can do it girls by taking one day at a time.
It was my philosophy and I'd like it for you too; That as you give unto the world, it will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and in pain, Then you can say to God at night... "My day was not in vain".
And now I am contented.... that my life was worth while Knowing as I passed along the way I made someone smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when you feel the gentle breeze or the wind upon your face; That's me giving you a great big hug or just a soft embrace.
When its time for you to go... from that body to be free, Remember you aren't going.... your coming here with me.
Will be in touch again soon Laura and Julie I love and miss you both very much too, With all my heart, Your Daddy
Here's to you Wayne. Lord knows you deserve as many of these as your heart desires. From all of us down here, we salute you, Cheers buddy!!!
Was it only yesterday, I kissed you goodnight But those days are now long gone, For you have grown into adulthood The result of being born..
I am grateful for your tender years As I thank God for your love, I had no idea on your birthday How precious you'd become.
All the special memories I recall Of your head upon my arm, With lots of fun and adventures As I protected you from harm.
Now, I must let go those yesterdays The nights I paced the floor, For you have another path to walk To find your open door.
As you grow into the joy Of finding life can hold much more, My encouragement I give As you follow your own call.
For a Daddys love is not enough There's courage needed on your way, As you put your hand into the hand of God My part will be to pray.
But the treasure I can keep forever Is my delight in who you are, And as I will always be your father You will be my shining star.
HOPE
I know, as surely as I know how to breathe, that you are with me always. You are closer to me now than ever before and the only difference is that instead of opening my eyes to see you, now I must open my heart.
Last night I was trying to sleep, My Daddy's voice I did hear, I opened my eyes and looked around, But he did not appear.
He said "Laura, Julie you've got to listen You've got to understand. God didn't take me from you girls, he only took my hand.
When I called out in pain that night the instant that I died, He reached down and took my hand and pulled me to his side.
He pulled me up and saved me from the misery and pain, My body was hurt badly, I could never be the same.
My search is really over now I've found happiness within, All the answers to my dreams and all that might have been.
I love you so and miss more and I'll always be near by, my bodys gone forever, but my spirit will never die.
And so you must go on now live one day at a time, Just understand that God did not take me from you, he only took my hand.
When God decided to make a Father He needed someone very special Strong and sturdy too, To protect all of the family With great fortitude.
He pondered the majesty of mountains But, they were of such height, Then seeing the rough bark of a tree Thought of softness needed in a guy.
The sun so bright, the moon too dim He'll need to carefully plan and scheme, To build and understand And carry lots of love within.
A gentle heart, a strength to work Grit to endure, a humorous quirk, A spring in his step and twinkle in his eye Muscle to lift and spirit to fly.
So, of His own image, He molded man And made Himself an eternal friend, To share His fatherly ways He put His heart within.
For when a man walks upright with God He will display His glory too, And as a masterpiece of faith to live He is a Father of true attribute.
Thankyou Dad, I love you always For every treasured moment you have been, It is hard to put into words All that is in the heart of me.
The day will come when I am gone But do not despair, For I will be alive Death has no power to keep me down, My soul is unbound, without any care I am not held by time or space, Soon you will be filled with delight And look with joy upon my face.
You may think I have gone afar Departed forever from your broken heart, But, I am but a step beyond Just one breath apart Awake for all time in a wonderful place, Soon you will come to me And together we will dance and twirl In the miracle of amazing grace.
For shattered are the chains of earth Jesus broke the power of death's gloom Don't search around for me there I cannot stay in a cold dark tomb, Lift your eyes to the sky For there, on high, I am flying free Soaring in a beautiful new day Look beyond... for then you will see.
Praise the Lord, we will rise again Nothing here will hold us back, All God has promised will be ours to keep We will live forever Where there is nothing to lack.
Today... is a day of joy Though for a time of grief you may weep, Do not fear, I am not asleep, do not cry BUT overflow with hope.. For we will meet again, dearest one In the twinkling of an eye.
The new day is near.
Some days we find no interest some days we feel so strong Some days we feel so lonely Other days just seem so long We try and capture your spirits And put them in our heart Praying that maybe one new day Will be the day of our new start It has to be new without you Without you it's not the same If we are happy we will cry again With just the mention of your name So we hold our hands out to heaven And ask for a heavens guide To take us through these bad days And steady what has been a bumpy ride In time we will feel comfort When, we do not know Until then our Dear Loved Ones Follow us wherever we go
"GO REST HIGH ON THAT MOUNTAIN"
I know your life On earth was troubled, And only you could know the pain. You weren't afraid to face the devil You were no stranger to the rain.
Go rest high on that mountain. Son, your work on earth is done Go to Heaven a shoutin' Love for the Father and the Son.
Oh, how we cried the day you left us, We gathered 'round your grave to grieve. Wish I could've seen the angels faces When they heard your sweet voice sing.
Go rest high on that mountain, Son, your work on earth is done Go to Heaven a shoutin' Love for the Father and the Son. Vince Gill
Those we love must someday pass beyond our present sight... must leave us and the world we know without their radiant light.
But we know that like a candle, their lovely light will shine to brighten up another place more perfect more divine.
And in the realm of Heaven, where they shine so warm and bright. Our loved ones live forevermore, in God's eternal light.
~Author Unknown
DADDY, LAURA AND I MISS YOU SO MUCH
The Masterpiece
God took the strength of a mountain, The majesty of a tree, The warmth of a summer sun, The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature, The comforting arm of night, The wisdom of the ages, The power of the eagle's flight,
The joy of a morning in spring, The faith of a mustard seed, The patience of eternity, The depth of a family need.
Then God combined these qualities. When there was nothing more to add, He knew His masterpiece was complete, And so, He called it ... "DAD!"
PLEASE feel free to come back because I will be updating Wayne's website weekly. I have nearly 20 yrs + worth of pictures I will be posting. PLEASE feel free to e-mail me with any photo's you want added or any poems that you want share. This is the one way I can honor your Son, Son-in-law, your brother, your brother-in-law, your Uncle, your friend and most of all Laura and Julie's Daddy and my courageous buddy, my friend and former loving spouse of 20 yrs. I speak for our 2 daughters, Laura-Lynn and Julie-Ann and for all of Wayne's family and friends through this website in everything I post and add. Please help me to make this website a memorable one.
When you're lonely, I wish you LOVE. When you're sad, I wish you JOY. When you're discouraged, I wish you HOPE. When life is stressful, I wish you inner SILENCE. When your spirit is empty, I wish you simple BEAUTY. When you're troubled, I wish you PEACE!
I'M THERE INSIDE YOUR HEART
Right now I'm in a different place, And though we seem apart, I'm closer than I ever was ... I'm there inside your heart. I'm with you when you greet each day And while the sun shines bright, I'm there to share the sunsets, too ... I'm with you every night. I'm with you when the times are good, To share a laugh or two, And if a tear should start to fall ... I'll still be there for you. And when that day arrives that we no longer are apart, I'll smile and hold you close to me ... Forever in my heart.
FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS
We do not need a special day To bring you to our minds. The days we do not think of you Are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake, We know that you are gone. And no one knows the heart ache As we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness And secret tears still flow. What it meant to lose you No one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you, Your place no one can fill. In life we loved you dearly; In death we love you still.
There will always be a heartache, And often a silent tear. But always a precious memory Of the days when you were here.
If tears could make a staircase, And heartaches make a lane, We'd walk the path to heaven And bring you home again.
We hold you close within our hearts; And there you will remain, To walk with us throughout our lives Until we meet again.
Our family chain is broken now, And nothing seems the same, But as God calls us one by one, The chain will link again.
On the day God took you I thought that I would die I wondered where the time went? I asked alot of whys?? With people all around me I felt alone inside From all their words of comfort, I couldn't seem to hide, I thought I might be dreaming That I'd wake and find you here, I thought "This can't be happening." As I wiped another tear. On the day that you were laid to rest My heart broke yet again, I wondered if the pain would end, But mostly, I wondered when?? It's hard to be without you, At times the days seem long, Sometimes I just sit crying, When there's really nothing wrong. I wish we'd had more time, Before your life was done. I hope your resting peacefully, No more hurt, no more pain, its done.
I found a penny today just laying on the ground But it is not just a penny this little coin I've found...
Found pennies come from Heaven that's what Wayne once told me He said Angels toss them down oh, how I loved that story...
He said when an Angel misses you they toss a penny down Sometimes just to cheer you up and make a smile out of your frown...
So don't pass by that penny when you are feeling blue It may be a penny from Heaven that an Angel has tossed to you.....
Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ welcoming Wayne home
Go ahead, mention my dad, the one that died you know. Don't worry about hurting me further, The depth of my pain doesn't show.
Don't worry about making me cry, I'm already crying inside. Help me to heal by releasing the tears that I try to hide.
I'm hurt when you just keep silent, pretending he didn't exist. I'd rather you mention my Dad, knowing that he has been missed.
You ask me how I am doing, I say "pretty good" or "fine". But healing is something on going, I feel it will take a lifetime
I Believe Written by Diamond Rio
Every now and then soft as breath upon my skin I feel you come back again And it’s like you haven’t been gone a moment from my side Like the tears were never cried Like the hands of time are holding you and me And with all my heart I’m sure we’re closer than we ever were I don’t have to hear or see, I’ve got all the proof I need There are more than angels watching over me
I believe.
That when you die your life goes on It doesn’t end here when you’re gone Every soul is filled with light It never ends and if I’m right Our love can even reach across eternity
I believe.
Forever, you’re a part of me Forever, in the heart of me And I’ll hold you even longer if I can The people who don’t see the most Say that I believe in ghosts And if that makes me crazy, then I am
’cause I believe
There are more than angels watching over me
I believe.
I'm In The Arms of Jesus
Julie, please don't look so sad, Laura, please don't cry~ "Cause I am in the arms of Jesus way up here in the sky." Please, try not to question God, Don't think he is unkind Don't think He sent me to you, and then He changed his mind. You see, I am his special son, and I'm needed up above I'm the special gift he gave you, the product of his love. I'll always be there with you and watch the sky at night, Find the brightest star that's gleaming, That's my halo's brilliant light. You'll see me in the morning frost, that mist on your window pane. That's me in the summer showers, I'll be dancing in the rain. When you feel a little breeze, from a gentle wind that blows That's me, I'll be there, planting a kiss on your nose. When you see a Mustang driving by, and your heart feels a little tug, That's me, I'll be there, giving your heart a big hug. So Julie, please don't look so sad, Laura don't you cry. I'm in the arms of Jesus way up here in the sky
written by Pauline Ayers for my girls 11-22-07
Keep shining your light upon each and everyone of us Wayne Its terribly rough down here without you. Keep your light shining especially bright on your Mom She misses her two very special men. PS Give Dad a cuddly hug from her, ok.
Death may seperate us but memories bind us, always!!!
To Those I Love and Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go. I have so many things to do and see. You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears, Be happy that we had so many years. I gave you my love, you can only guess- How much you gave me in happiness. I thank you for the love you each have shown, But now it's time I travel alone. So grieve awhile that we must part- So bless the memories within your heart. I won't be far away, for life goes on. So, if you need me , call and I will come. Though you can't see or touch me- I'll be near and if you listen with your heart, You'll hear all my love around you soft and clear. And then, when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile, and say "Welcome Home"
author unknown
The Gift of Grief Author Unknown
"Death takes away. That's all there is to it But grief gives back. By experiencing it, we are not simply eroded by pain. Rather, we become more compassionate, more aware, more able to help others, more able to help outselves.
Grief is powerful. It plunges us into the depths of sorrow and forces us to face the finiteness of life, the mightiness of death, and the meaning of our existence here on earth.
It does more than enable us to change: it demands it. The way we change is up to us. It is possible to be forever bowed by grief. It is possible to be so afraid of one aspect of it that we become frozen in place, stuck in sorrow, riveted in resentment or remorse, unable to move on.
But it is also possible to be enlarged, to find new direction, and to allow the memory of the beloved person who has died to live on within us...not as a monument to misery but as a source of strength, love and inspiration.
By acting on our grief, we can eventually find within ourselves a place of peace and puposefulness. It is my belief that all grievers, no matter how intense their pain, no matter how rough the terrain across which they travel, can eventually find that place within their hearts."
A Fallen Limb
A limb has fallen from the family tree I hear a voice that whispers "Grieve not for me." Remember the best times, the laughter, the songs. The good I lived while I was strong.
Continue my heritage, I am counting on you. Keep on smiling, the sun will shine through. My mind is at ease, my soul is at rest. Remembering all... how I was truely blessed.
Continue traditions, no matter how small. Go on with your life, don't stare at the wall. I miss you all dearly, so keep up your chin, Until that fine day, we're together again.
Did you see that butterfly flying towards your way? Fluttering up above you as if it wants to say.
I am all around you circling ever so close. Making sure you notice it in the wind that often blows?
I'm sending you those butterflies in hopes that you will see. That I am always thinking of you and sending love from me.
Sometimes you will see just one, or maybe two or three. So you’ll stop and feel my love and know that they're from me.
I send them all in many colors yellow, brown, or blue. I send them to you all the time to let you know that "I love you".
So the next time that you see a butterfly close around. Stop and watch it, think of me not needing to make a sound.
With the beauty of its wings always staying in your sight. Carrying all my hugs and love, as I hold you in its flight.
WAYNE THOMAS HUNT November 16th 1952-November 13th 2007
Daddy,,, this is Laura and I thinking of you. We know your sitting on a rainbow constantly watching over us.
When someone You love Becomes a memory The memory becomes A treasure.
Footprints In The Sand One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonged to him and the other to the LORD.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it. "LORD, you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you the most you would leave me.
The LORD replied, "My precious, precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."
Written by Mary Stevenson 1938
Please remember to light a candle before leaving. Thank you very much.
It Is US
A shadow of joy flickered; it is us. We told you We wouldn't leave. Our memories, our thoughts are imbedded deep in your heart. We still love you. Do not for one moment think that you have been abandoned. We are in the Light. In the corner, in the hall, the car, the yard ~ these are the places We stay with you. Our spirit rises every time you pray for us, but our energy comes closer to you. Love does not diminish; it grows stronger. We are the feathers that finds you in the yard, the dimmed light that grows brighter in your mind, We will place our memories for you to see. We lived in our special way, a way that now has its focus changed. We still crave your understanding and long for the many words of prayer and good fortune for our souls. We are in the Light. As you struggle to adjust without us, We watch silently. Sometimes we will summon up all the strength of our new world to make you notice us. Impressed by your grief, We try to impress our love deeper into your consciousness. As you should, We call out to the Heavens for help. You should know that the fountain of youth does exist. Our souls are now healthy. Your love sends us new found energy. We are adjusting to this new world. We are with you and we are in the Light. Please don't feel bad that you can't see us. We are with you wherever you go. We will protect you, just as you protected us so many times. Talk to us and somehow We will find a way to answer you. Mother, Father, son or daughter, it makes no difference. Brother, sister, lover, husband or wife, it makes no difference. Whatever our connection ~ friend or even foe ~We see you with our new eyes. We are learning to help wherever you are, wherever We are needed. This can be done because We are in the Light. When you feel despair, reach out to Us we will come. Our love for you truly does transcend from Heaven to Earth. Finish your life with the enthusiasm and zest that you had when we were together in the physical sense. You owe this to us, but more importantly, you owe it to yourself. Life continues for both of us. We are with you because WE LOVE YOU and We are the Light.
Daddy's Little Girl
Waiting patiently to enter the bathroom, the doorknob at my eye level, finally unlocks Daddy lets me in knowing I don't belong in there.
I just want to be in there with ... HIM He wipes the misty mirror to see. His Daddy smell is all in the steam, from his Irish Spring soap, his favorite soap.
I watch in silent anticipation while he shaves then rinses the last of the fluffy white cream from his face.
He picks up the bottle from the shelf ... ADIDAS. He splashes the aftershave with slaps and taps all over his face.
He leans down for me to inspect and I place an approving kiss on it .... ADIDAS Nothing like it.
Now, I am grown and alone in the store shopping for Christmas I get a whiff from a man standing near by, and I want to cry and I want to buy that aftershave that smelt so wonderful
I want my Daddy back alive. I want to again be that size.
The little girl eye level to the doorknob I take a moment, just one more sniff So I can walk away with my memories of Daddy's smell and Daddy's little girl.
written by Wayne's daughter Julie-Ann Hunt 11-25-07
Words cannot define how much I miss you your baby-julie ( pickles ) XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
You are the wind beneath my wings Wayne
Some Dads have to be so courageous When life is very tough, To gather up the strength For imparting a tender loving touch.
With life not turning out The way that they had planned, They will still make the time to care And try to understand.
For even while hurting deep inside They determine to be kind, To put the welfare of their child Uppermost in their mind.
Every moment relying on the Lord To know just what to say, For wisdom, love and strength To lead along the way.
And with a fortitude as days go by They keep being a precious Dad, To be there, as a needed father They are so very glad.
And no matter where their child may be Prayer plays the major part, For a Dad carries his treasured child Forever in his heart.
Although a light has
gone out from our lives,
it will never go out in my
heart...
but for some reason Jesus took
him away from them"
Tributes and Condolences
Have A Happy Easter Wayne. / Joan Taylor (None)
Wayne I am sorry I've not been to visit you for while now. I hope you have a Happy Easter Wayne. I read a lot about you on your beautiful website what my lovely friend Pauline has done for you. And what I read about you you seemed a very lovely man i...
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Merry Christmas All / Vee Angel Friend
Dearest Girls...Your Dad is smiling down missing you and loving you today while in the arms of Jesus where he is safe till you see him one again. Smile for him.xoxoxLove,V
Wayne is God's Angel Now. / Joan Taylor.
Hi There. Your website is so beautiful what you have done for Wayne. My heart & prayer's go out to you. Wayne will be watching over you now and alway's. He is waiting for the day when you will see him once again. An...
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What Will Matter / Pauline Ayers (former spouse ... my Buddy )
Ready or not, someday it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises, no minutes, hours or days.
All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else.
Wayne leaves behind 2 beautiful grown daughters, Laura 23 yrs of age and Julie 21 yrs of age. Those 2 girls were the only "real true loves" of his life. Wayne and I were married for 20 plus years and in those years we developed a very strong friendship and respect for each other. Although we divorced 5 yrs ago, we may have severed a marriage but our life long friendship remained very strong. Wayne also leaves behind his beautiful Mother, Marguerite. Wayne's beloved father, Leo passed away only months before his son. They say a real Father protects his children from all the hardships in life and Leo did just that by coming for his son to take him to a place where all the pain is gone and no more suffering exsists. Leo was a very devoted Father to all of his children and to his sweetheart, of 60+ yrs. Also missing Wayne are his 7 siblings. Sisters Linda ( husband Andy ) Sister Elaine (husband Jake ) Sister Debbie ( Ron ) Sister Cindy ( Bud ) Brother Gary ( wife Louise ) Brother Roger ( wife Shelley ) Brother Jeff ( Fiancee Stacey ) Wayne also leaves behind countless Neices and Nephews, Cousins, Aunts and Uncles and a few life long friends, especially Albert Calombe. Wayne was a remarkable family man. Family meant everything to him. I know Wayne better than anybody and I know without a doubt he too misses us all. Wayne did not make the decision to die, Lou Gherigs Disease ( A.L.S. ) made that choice for him.