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IN LOVING MEMORY of our beloved Ms. Saydee
Ms. Saydee Bum ( wawa ) 05\30\99 - 02\12\08





Although a light has
gone out from our lives,
it will never go out in my
heart...



 Thank you Joan for this lovely Christmas gift to Wayne
  


  


Back when my loving father and mother Made their cozy little home, I came along pretty soon To end the peaceful days they owned.
I guess they didn't have to choose For me to fill their empty hearts, But, I am sure so thankful Their lives were sabotaged.
By night my Dad would walk the floor Then still work hard by day, And when he came back home again I'd entice him out to play.
I didn't hear him grumble very much He'd merely grin at me and say, Ah, you make putty of a man But that's just a womans way.
I never then did figure out Why he thought little me so grown up, How could I know I was a mini version Of my sweet mothers heart.
As with a twinkle in his merry eye At anything I asked, Whatever problem I might bring He'd always fix on my behalf.
Ah, my Father has been good to me All the years we've been together, But, you know what is the best.. He'll be my Dad No#1 forever.
  


 

 

 









1 of Wayne's final resting places way up high atop in a glass case on a marbled shelf where his loved ones are not able to leave private momentos or their personal messages. "What we cannot leave with you there, we will always have within our hearts". I still visit you buddy even though your not there <3 Best friends,together,4ever!!


  
  


With your hand in mine; together we can walk through this
In Our Hearts
We miss you so much Daddy. The faith that you instilled in us is where our faith helps to keep us going. You will never be forgotten. We love you!

 This sweet angel hug is for you, Laura-Lynn & Julie-Ann from your Mumma XoXoXoXoXo



  
And God Said
I said, "God, I hurt," And God said, " I know,"
I said, God, I cry alot," And God Said, "That is why I gave you tears,"
I said, "God, I am so depressed," And God said, "That is why I gave you sunshine,"
I said, "God, life is so hard," And God said, "That is why I gave you loved ones,"
I said, "God, my loved one died," And God said, "so did mine,"
I said, "God it is such a big loss," And God Said, "I saw mine nailed to the cross,"
I said, "God, but your loved one lives on," And God said, "So does yours,"
I said, "God, where are they now?" And God said, "mine is on my right and Yours is in the light,"
I said, "God, it hurts," And God said, "I know,"

  
My dearest Laura and Julie
Some thing I'd like to say but first of all to let you both know, I arrived ok.
I'm writing this from heaven, Here I dwell with God above.
Here there's no more tears of saddness; Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I am out of sight, Remember I am with you both Every morning, noon and night.
The day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and he said, "I welcome you".
It's good to have you back again Wayne, You were missed while you were gone. As for your 2 sweet daughters, They'll be here later on.
I needed you here badly, You're part of my plan, There's so much we have to do, To help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, That he wished for me to do, and foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
I will be beside you everyday, and week and year. And when you're sad I'm there To wipe away your tears.
When you lie awake in bed at night, the days chores put to flight God and I are closest to you... in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years, because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain, Remember there would be no flowers, without the down pouring rain.
I wish I could tell you All that God has planned If I were to tell you, You wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain though my life on earth is over, I'm closest to you now then I ever was before.
And to my many friends, trust God knows what is best. I'm still not far from you, I'm just beyond the crest.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; but together we can do it girls by taking one day at a time.
It was my philosophy and I'd like it for you too; That as you give unto the world, it will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and in pain, Then you can say to God at night... "My day was not in vain".
And now I am contented.... that my life was worth while Knowing as I passed along the way I made someone smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when you feel the gentle breeze or the wind upon your face; That's me giving you a great big hug or just a soft embrace.
When its time for you to go... from that body to be free, Remember you aren't going.... your coming here with me.
Will be in touch again soon Laura and Julie I love and miss you both very much too, With all my heart, Your Daddy

 
  


  




 Here's to you Wayne. Lord knows you deserve as many of these as your heart desires. From all of us down here, we salute you, Cheers buddy!!!


 

 Was it only yesterday, I kissed you goodnight But those days are now long gone, For you have grown into adulthood The result of being born..
I am grateful for your tender years As I thank God for your love, I had no idea on your birthday How precious you'd become.
All the special memories I recall Of your head upon my arm, With lots of fun and adventures As I protected you from harm.
Now, I must let go those yesterdays The nights I paced the floor, For you have another path to walk To find your open door.
As you grow into the joy Of finding life can hold much more, My encouragement I give As you follow your own call.
For a Daddys love is not enough There's courage needed on your way, As you put your hand into the hand of God My part will be to pray.
But the treasure I can keep forever Is my delight in who you are, And as I will always be your father You will be my shining star.






HOPE
I know, as surely as I know how to breathe, that you are with me always. You are closer to me now than ever before and the only difference is that instead of opening my eyes to see you, now I must open my heart.
  
Last night I was trying to sleep, My Daddy's voice I did hear, I opened my eyes and looked around, But he did not appear.
He said "Laura, Julie you've got to listen You've got to understand. God didn't take me from you girls, he only took my hand.
When I called out in pain that night the instant that I died, He reached down and took my hand and pulled me to his side.
He pulled me up and saved me from the misery and pain, My body was hurt badly, I could never be the same.
My search is really over now I've found happiness within, All the answers to my dreams and all that might have been.
I love you so and miss more and I'll always be near by, my bodys gone forever, but my spirit will never die.
And so you must go on now live one day at a time, Just understand that God did not take me from you, he only took my hand.
  




  









When God decided to make a Father He needed someone very special Strong and sturdy too, To protect all of the family With great fortitude.
He pondered the majesty of mountains But, they were of such height, Then seeing the rough bark of a tree Thought of softness needed in a guy.
The sun so bright, the moon too dim He'll need to carefully plan and scheme, To build and understand And carry lots of love within.
A gentle heart, a strength to work Grit to endure, a humorous quirk, A spring in his step and twinkle in his eye Muscle to lift and spirit to fly.
So, of His own image, He molded man And made Himself an eternal friend, To share His fatherly ways He put His heart within.
For when a man walks upright with God He will display His glory too, And as a masterpiece of faith to live He is a Father of true attribute.
Thankyou Dad, I love you always For every treasured moment you have been, It is hard to put into words All that is in the heart of me.







  


The day will come when I am gone But do not despair, For I will be alive Death has no power to keep me down, My soul is unbound, without any care I am not held by time or space, Soon you will be filled with delight And look with joy upon my face.
You may think I have gone afar Departed forever from your broken heart, But, I am but a step beyond Just one breath apart Awake for all time in a wonderful place, Soon you will come to me And together we will dance and twirl In the miracle of amazing grace.
For shattered are the chains of earth Jesus broke the power of death's gloom Don't search around for me there I cannot stay in a cold dark tomb, Lift your eyes to the sky For there, on high, I am flying free Soaring in a beautiful new day Look beyond... for then you will see.
Praise the Lord, we will rise again Nothing here will hold us back, All God has promised will be ours to keep We will live forever Where there is nothing to lack.
Today... is a day of joy Though for a time of grief you may weep, Do not fear, I am not asleep, do not cry BUT overflow with hope.. For we will meet again, dearest one In the twinkling of an eye.
The new day is near.

 

 
       
Those we love must someday pass beyond our present sight... must leave us and the world we know without their radiant light.
But we know that like a candle, their lovely light will shine to brighten up another place more perfect more divine.
And in the realm of Heaven, where they shine so warm and bright. Our loved ones live forevermore, in God's eternal light.
~Author Unknown

  

  
 
  
DADDY, LAURA AND I MISS YOU SO MUCH
The Masterpiece
God took the strength of a mountain, The majesty of a tree, The warmth of a summer sun, The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature, The comforting arm of night, The wisdom of the ages, The power of the eagle's flight,
The joy of a morning in spring, The faith of a mustard seed, The patience of eternity, The depth of a family need.
Then God combined these qualities. When there was nothing more to add, He knew His masterpiece was complete, And so, He called it ... "DAD!"
PLEASE feel free to come back because I will be updating Wayne's website weekly. I have nearly 20 yrs + worth of pictures I will be posting. PLEASE feel free to e-mail me with any photo's you want added or any poems that you want share. This is the one way I can honor your Son, Son-in-law, your brother, your brother-in-law, your Uncle, your friend and most of all Laura and Julie's Daddy and my courageous buddy, my friend and former loving spouse of 20 yrs. I speak for our 2 daughters, Laura-Lynn and Julie-Ann and for all of Wayne's family and friends through this website in everything I post and add. Please help me to make this website a memorable one.











When you're lonely, I wish you LOVE. When you're sad, I wish you JOY. When you're discouraged, I wish you HOPE . When life is stressful, I wish you inner SILENCE. When your spirit is empty, I wish you simple BEAUTY.  When you're troubled, I wish you PEACE!


I'M THERE INSIDE YOUR HEART
Right now I'm in a different place, And though we seem apart, I'm closer than I ever was ... I'm there inside your heart. I'm with you when you greet each day And while the sun shines bright, I'm there to share the sunsets, too ... I'm with you every night. I'm with you when the times are good, To share a laugh or two, And if a tear should start to fall ... I'll still be there for you. And when that day arrives that we no longer are apart, I'll smile and hold you close to me ... Forever in my heart.
  








FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS
We do not need a special day To bring you to our minds. The days we do not think of you Are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake, We know that you are gone. And no one knows the heart ache As we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness And secret tears still flow. What it meant to lose you No one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you, Your place no one can fill. In life we loved you dearly; In death we love you still.
There will always be a heartache, And often a silent tear. But always a precious memory Of the days when you were here.
If tears could make a staircase, And heartaches make a lane, We'd walk the path to heaven And bring you home again.
We hold you close within our hearts; And there you will remain, To walk with us throughout our lives Until we meet again.
Our family chain is broken now, And nothing seems the same, But as God calls us one by one, The chain will link again.

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